Saturday, January 26, 2008

Leading Our Own Lives

"When someone sees the same people every day, as had happened with him at the seminary, they wind up becoming a part of that person' s life.

And then they want the person to change. If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry.

Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own."

... The Alchemist, Paulo Coelho

4 comments:

  1. This is familiar.

    It's like: we always like to judge people but we forgot to 'check'ourselves or;we are so engrossed trying to change people to suit ourselves but we forgot that we should change our own.

    Thanks for the reminder cikgu.

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  2. i try to be with others
    but can't be one with myself
    being part of other people
    allows me to know myself better

    others and i differ
    and yet we are so similar
    perhaps i'm looking at a mirror

    we are a kaleidoscope
    bouncing off each other's light
    just as long as
    we stay on our own sides

    ~some random thoughts

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  3. be alone in the crowd
    is one lesson i never forget
    be with men and serve them all without pride
    in your heart - let Him alone be your perpetual Guide

    in essence, man are not that different
    we merely differ as we build our barricades
    to God's eyes only Taqwa is inherent
    there are no sides except in our own little charades

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